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Why I Love My Cats

In Uncategorized on October 26, 2011 at 12:44 pm

Simply put, my cats make me happy. But since that’s not enough to convince you cat-haters that my cats give me more reasons than making me happy to make me love them, I have decided to make a list of WHY my cats make me happy.

Before I go on any further, you first must know that I have two cats – let’s call them Scarf and Plug. Scarf is a very pretty, male, fat cat. He knows he’s pretty, and he likes to roll around on the floor and give you ‘the eyes’. The eyes that KNOW what you’re thinking – “My God, what a cute cat!” – and makes you run towards him and rub him all over his tummy so that he could roll around some more.

My other cat, Plug, is a more masculine but annoying cat. He craves attention all the time, and if you’re not giving it to him, he will FORCE you to give it to him – and not in the “Oh look at me, I’m cute,” sort of way, but rather the kind that wakes you up at 4am in the morning just so that he could snuggle … Continue Reading →

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The Different Types of ‘Growing Apart’

In Uncategorized on October 25, 2011 at 6:47 pm

At one point of our lives, everyone’s bound to grow apart from one another – whether you like it or not. So this is a little manual to make you all feel better, and help you realize that you are not always the constant variable that drives all others off.

It’s your last year of school, and most people from your year are leaving the country for good. Of course, not every person has the same chemical reaction as the other when leaving – some will completely cut off with everyone, and conversations will be awkward thereon forth; some will cut off unintentionally, but when you do have conversations, it’s like you’re back to the old days; some will try to keep contact, but the two of you know that you’re not supposed to since it’s so awkward, but you continue trying anyway; and some are just natural – those are the pros. They know what they’re doing, and when you talk, it’s like you’re not even in two different countries. It doesn’t matter … Continue Reading →

Why I Don’t Say ‘I Love You’

In Uncategorized on October 22, 2011 at 10:14 am

I’ve always had the issue of not being able to say “I love you” without thinking twice, and when I do say it, I usually don’t mean it – in the sense that I just don’t think it’s the appropriate time to say it, but I just say it because I do feel it, and I don’t want you to feel bad about yourself.

You see, the thing is, I believe that saying ‘I love you’ too much makes the phrase in itself invaluable. If people keep throwing these three words at each other constantly, then it will be about as normal as “Good morning!” and then what’s so special about that?

I mean, if you think that saying “I love you” is reassuring your significant other or your friend or whoever that you love them, then you’re doing it all wrong. Reassurance should be shown through actions and not through words, otherwise you’re only fooling yourself. Do not take these three words for granted, otherwise you might not feel the love anymore, but still continuously tell the other person that you love them for the sake that you got used … Continue Reading →