threeredcoats

Guy Friends > Girl Friends

In Uncategorized on October 11, 2011 at 6:07 pm

Ladies, you know when you’re making plans to go out with two guys you know and you’re like “Okay, who else do I tell?” then you invite a couple of more guys, before realizing that you’re the only girl that will be going out with the guys? You then proceed to going through your contact list, one by one, seeing which other girl you could bring along with you…

Well, my advice is DO NOT DO IT! If a name of a girl does not pop into your heard in a flash of a second, then that is your mind purposefully avoiding reminding you of any other girls.

Let’s face it: guys are funner than girls, with the exception of the few girlfriends that you have but also haven to happen lives (assignments, family, etc.)

If you want to go out with a group of guys, go ahead and do it. They won’t make you feel left out, unless they’re more than five guys, then the talk could get really “manly” (topics revolve … Continue Reading → around sex and include a lot of cursing).

However, if you feel uncomfortable, then do not bring along a random girl with you. If you do that, then you’ll most likely wind up being the tenth wheeler, because she WILL get all the attention.

Or she’ll be sitting there awkwardly, and you won’t know what to do with her.

Or she’ll be flirting with the guy you’re into, and he’ll be flirting back.

Or she’ll wind up being really annoying, which will embarrass you.

Or she’ll want to hang out again and again, and will start thinking that the two of you are now best friends.

Or she’ll go home at the end of the day and add all the guys on Facebook, even the ones that she only said “Hi” to and nothing more.

Point is, don’t bring along a girl you barely know JUST because you don’t want to feel uncomfortable. If your guy friends are real, then they’ll make sure you feel comfortable.

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